I'm happy that there is smn with whom I can talk

Well, if u r here, tell me about this forum, tell me about members.
The things that I didn't understand : "hero member" and "jr member" 
Why some members have 2,3,4 and etc stars but others only 1 ?
Your stars came from the quantity of Your messages. If You increase the quantity, Your stars will increase too.
So that Your status will change from "Newbie" to "Jr member", then from "Jr member" to "Full", "Sr", "Hero", then "Super" .. etc..
But it doesn't mean You should leave any message here, in order to increase Your status.
Try to post a message, that will be useful to people and at least enjoyable to read.. (I'm sure, You are doing like this)